EPISODE 36: AKASHIC RECORDS FOR CREATING THE MIDLIFE YOU WANT

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One way we're healing the planet is by doing our inner work by experiencing, you know the family with addiction and then you heal it, you don't become it and then your kids don't experience that same distortion. And so that whole bloodline gets lighter and lighter and doesn't have that same imprint.

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Hey, peeps, welcome to the flexible neurotic podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Sarah Milken.

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Yeah, you heard that right.

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I'm a real PhD doctor. Long, long ago, like last fucking year. I was sitting in the midlife funk wondering, was this it for me? That day, I realized I needed to get off my ass and start my midlife remix. I dusted off my PhD wipe the menopause, sweat off my forehead, grabbed my golden shit shovel and started digging deep to all my midlife pitches. It's not just luck, coffee and hormones that get you through your midlife remix. It's action steps. Let's do this. Hi, good peeps. This is the next episode of The flexible neurotic Podcast. I'm Dr. Sarah Milken V flexible, neurotic. Today I have a guest who is magical in many ways. She is an intuitive healer who may see your angels guides inner child and or divine self. She works with the Akashic records and Reiki what does all of this even fucking mean? One of her clients says that she is a powerful healer, but that her superpower is teaching you how to heal yourself and others. She leads her own healing circles under her platform called the divine alchemy Academy. Her name is Kimber Tiernan Hi, Kimber. Hello, Sara. So excited to see Oh,

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I'm so excited to be here.

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I can't believe you're 51 You look so young. It's actually crazy. It's insane. To me. I'm like, do you have like the extra strong airbrush filter on or something I've got a filter on. Yeah. Or you have like the magic inner healing fucking fairy dust. And I want a definite jar of I'm so excited that you're here we met a summer ago introduced by My Life Coach Carrie rose, who's one of your good friends. And we did a deep dive into my Akashic records. And we're going to tell everyone what that means. And we talked about ancestral trauma and why I don't like to cook and my mom didn't like to cook and her mom didn't like to cook. And it really was an amazing conversation. Because when I look back on it, there were so many things in that conversation that have actually manifested over the past year with this podcast. And and now a year into the podcast coming up on you know, the one year anniversary, I guess I just wanted to reach out to you again and say, hey, I want to share you with the listeners. And I want to talk to you about you know, opening my Akashic records at the end of this episode so that other people can get a sense of like, what it feels like and the sorts of questions you can ask. So everyone stay tuned. In this episode, we're going to sprinkle some divine dust and our inner woowoo and chat with Kimber, about specifically the Akashic records what the fuck are they and what they even are and how they can help us dive into ourselves and the midlife journey that we are on. Kimber, I usually ask guests if they have a golden shovel, but today I think I'm gonna ask you do have a golden ethereal one. I want everyone to stay tuned because Kimber is going to do the reading session with me towards the end and you guys can see and hear what it really feels like Kimber says this is a quote that everything in this universe vibrates. And in order to live the life you want, you must be a vibrational match to the dream. Now is the time to become aligned with your divine self. We're going to talk to divine selves Akashic records and the line of energy that runs through all of us. Usually in the show Kimber, we're talking about sexual vibrators. today. We're talking about energetic vibrations within all of us without vibrators. Are you ready?

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Yes. Orgasm.

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No, totally. I just want to like make it awkward for a second. That's good. You should see her face she's like I'm kind of digging this but this is sort of awkward. It's a midlife remix, Kimber? I love it. We're raising the sexy out of the sweaty,

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so good.

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I want to do a quick jump into Kimber and get a quick snapshot of how she got to be a healer. I read in 1999 You had what you call a shattering and heart awakening event that led you on a necessary journey to uncovered heal. In this deep work. You talk about bringing the dark into the light. You begin to see yourself as part of God experiencing each emotion pain, separation, insecurity, abandonment, in order to transmute the feeling into love. And in this journey yourself, you found your intuitive and healing gifts. Wow, Kimber, can you give us like the three minute rundown on that? Amazing?

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Yeah. So the three minute rundown is I was always tuned into the angelic realm, and I was a sick kid. And so when I got fevers, angels would visit me and I could tune into other dimensions and other roles. During this process. I connected to a boy. And so we would connect on these ethers as kids. I thought it was my imaginary friend. And so we would connect and play, we'd play on swings, we would like fly through the stars in the ethers. But when I was 20, I worked for a Universal Music, and he was in a band. So I went to a concert to do my job. And then after we went up partying, and then the moment he kissed me, I just started crying and was like, Oh, my God at you. And he was like, Oh, my God at

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you. So wait as a child? Was he in your head? So he was in my head as a child? Okay, so then how did you know that it was the same guy at the concert,

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the energetic signature. And so as soon as he kissed me, I felt that energy. And it was just like, it opened a veil going, Oh, my God, this is my person. I've been connecting with my entire life. He know that too. You knew that too? Ah, yeah, we were both crying going, Oh, my God, it's you. And so it was so intense that I ran because I was, you know, 2021. And I was like, Oh, my God, this is just a lot. So I ran and I went and married the nice guy, and had a couple kids kept putting him out of my mind. And then when I was about 28, like 26, right after my daughter was born, I started having dreams and visions of him again. And the angels would be like, you have to find it. And you guys are an amazing spiritual path together. And so you

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were still married?

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I was still married.

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Did you feel guilty about that?

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I, I felt guilty. But I also felt like, I kept gaslighting myself going, Well, this must be something else. This must have to do with my photography, maybe I'm supposed to connect with him. First something different. I was slightly naive. I mean, I was from Utah, a little naive. And just thinking, I don't know, maybe this has something to do with something else. And so I had this amazing dream that said, you have to find him in the desert, because you guys are on the spiritual path. And so the next day, one of my friends called me from the record company and said, Oh, they're playing a show in Phoenix, you should come and like, the desert, they're playing. And so I took that as a sign and I went, and then the moment he took my hand, it was like, I stepped into the realm of heaven. Everything disappeared. It was like touching the face of God. Like it just there was this overwhelming love. It was otherworldly. And I was like, Oh, my God, I love him. Like, that's the reality of what's happening is this is the love of my life. And so I walked out of that situation, like when he had to get on his bus. And my friend was like, what was that? And I'm like, I love him. I don't know what I'm gonna do. I'm married with two little kids with like, the nice little suburban house and everything. And I was like, I love him. And she's like, well, he's so loves you. I've never seen anyone look at anyone like that. And then she's like, but I have to have more information about the lights. And I was like, Well, what lights? And she's said, when he took my hand, these lights flew out of our heads and merged in the sky. And she's like, I just, I don't believe in your whoo stuff. What was that? And so that, yeah. And then that night, he was connecting with me, she could feel it. And when I went home, my ex husband, he was very intuitive as well. And so he knew something had gone on. And my, our marriage just obviously started disintegrating. And it went, that was the dark night of soul. That's when I stepped into that dark night that are shattering, heart shattering experience. Because everything I thought I knew, got completely wiped off the table. I lost my house, I lost my marriage. I couldn't get a hold of this person. Because at that moment, he was like a rock star. And it was then his wife and my ex teamed up and tried to keep us apart and completely insane and crazy.

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So how long was that dark journey for you? The Dark Night of the Soul, I

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think lasted about three or four years. Wow, where it was just chaos because even when that person and I came together, we both had so many childhood wounds that it was like a sacred mirror. So we're mirroring back to each other, all our unhealed aspects. And so then we were getting really crazy with each other And finally, I was like, Oh, I've got to do some work. Like I'm really not healed. And I'm really broken. And he kept saying you're too fragile. And you know, you you need a thicker skin, you take everything so personally and I was like, Well, what is that? And so that's when I started doing my inner child work. That's when I started really

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thinking a Universal Music. You weren't quote a healer professionally.

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No, I worked for universal from like 90 to 96 I'd quit to be a stay at home mom. So I was just, I was just a mom doing photography for fun and with my kids. And so suddenly, I had nothing like, I mean, that was like, you know, my

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was like your first step. So it didn't 100% workout with the rock star. Yeah. Yeah, I read you. It's like called your twin flame. We won't get into that. That's probably like six episodes, six episodes? Yeah, sure. But then, like, what was your next step?

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So my next step was, you know, I was really dark, I was really in that dark night of the soul, the what they call the river of change. It's like one side, your old life, you step into the river of change that takes everything away, that you thought you knew. And so when you're in that river of change, and the dark night, you have to connect to the Divine, you have to connect to the angels and your higher self. And so my next step was doing inner child work of going back in time and healing that broken little girl that why this all transpired the way it did.

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For all my pain. Yeah, what was the main trigger for those wounds? Like being sick or your relationship with your parents? Like what was what was most of the source of the

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most of the source was? molestation? Hmm, wow. And then abandonment by my dad, too. So it was like that and the chaos I grew up in the 70s. And, you know, parents weren't exactly sometimes parents. Yeah. Then my parents but they weren't very present. And

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they weren't helicoptering you like I helicopter the fuck out of my head. Yeah. I'm like, you'll appreciate this one day. It's the pendulum swing. Oh, my gosh. Okay, so you started digging into all of that inner work? Yeah. And then how do you get from that to being Kimber the healer helping other people?

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Well, during this process, I continued having visions, I continued having dreams and downloads and information. And then when I started talking to this person, he was having the same experience. So everything I would have, I would tell him, and he's like, that's 100% True. And so like, I saw his childhood got downloaded like a movie. I knew everything that happened to him. And so when I told them, he's like, how do you know that nobody knows that. I was like, well, the angel showed me. And so I started really forming a trust of when I see things. It's got an element of truth in it. And so after I did the healing work and dove into myself, I had to bartend to support my family. And I was going through something so I call the healer. And he was telling me all these things. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, I know all of this. And I go, my question is, what am I supposed to do? Because I'm bartending and I know, that's not what I'm here for. Right? It's like, well, you know, you're a healer, right? And I was like, yes, he's like, Well, why aren't you doing it? Like, I don't want to be the weird lady. Yeah, like no itch. Yeah. I imagine like a long purple dress and crystal ball. And I'm like, I don't want to do that. And then I'm like, Oh, I can actually be myself and still do this and be grounded on Earth and not be completely I mean, I'm loyal, but not be completely weirdo and

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totally, yeah, they're like, you're like, quote, normal. Whoa, whoa, totally. Like mom Mom. Whoo. Whoa,

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totally. someone's like, oh, my god. Thank god, you're normal. I didn't know what I was getting.

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I love it. It's like It's like The Stepford healer. I love that.

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Okay, so you started down the path of becoming a healer. And people were responding. And it just went from there.

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Yeah. So people were making huge changes in their life. It was transformative. People started healing. I started helping people with their inner child wounds and just giving them a bigger, larger

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influx your most I mean, I know you have a bunch of tools in your spiritual toolkit, like which one it was the one you either started with or your most favorite now like, which is the one that's giving you the power, like not the power but that judge?

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Yeah, the thing I started with was the hands on healing. Okay, really and I could read people's energy field and know where they were holding trauma and know is that Reiki I am a Reiki Master, I don't know, I don't use Reiki I use is called crystalline harmonics. And that's I

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saw that term and I was like, what is that? I don't even think I've ever heard of that. We're gonna have to do that another

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that's a whole other story to download. Okay, so I think I'm the I'm the only one who does like this line harmonics, guys, like on my own modality okay, but so that's where I started and really watching the just even me channeling that divine energy through me and up leveling people removing those templates. And then I think my, what I love the most is teaching people how to use these tools like that quote, you read of like, you know, a lot of healers tell you things, but they don't tell you how or give you your power back. I love giving people their power back that it's not me. Like you've got these tools as well.

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I love that because that's sort of how I see this whole midlife journey is that, you know, people call it the midlife crisis, which sort of implies that we don't have anything to say that it's sort of like happening to us. But I'm sort of seeing it as like a midlife remix, where we bring the power back to ourselves. And we're like, hey, we have freewill. We have agency we can make choices, to feel good about ourselves

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completely. And that's even with it. So then I learned the Akashic Records, which opened a whole other realm to me. And that's what the Akashic records say is your guides in there, we have free will you have your own agency, they will never tell you what to do what

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our Akashic records, remember, how are they,

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they are so amazing, the Akashic records, they are a dimension of consciousness. So it contains everything that has happened is happening and possibly could happen. So they're probable timelines, based on your frequency, your trajectory right now. And so basically, their passion burgers tells the story of your souls journey through space and time. They're also known as the book of life and the Bible, the book of remembrance, and the Torah. So there are a living library of information of every soul since the beginning of creation. A lot of people see them like a library. And they open up actual books, I experienced them more like living like loads of information with your guides around it, and the keepers of the records. And so it's an opportunity for you to view the evolution of your soul from that loving perspective of your guides.

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So everybody has their own personal guides. So there's like the Kimber guides, the Sarah guides, does anyone have the same guides?

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Well, the way I experienced them, I think I've a really deep connection with the Ascended Masters. And so I'll see like the Sarah guides, but I also see different archetypes of Ascended Masters in their lives. So right now, because we're on this like big Divine Feminine rising energy, a lot of the female energies have like ISIS and Mary Magdalene, and green Tara, in their records that are helping I see them as a blueprint of energy that we all hold that we can match our frequency to that energy.

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Yeah, I when I was doing research, I found Linda Howe, she is you know, the vendor. Oh, wow. Okay, so I found her and she was saying that it's sort of like a Google search for the soul. Yes. And you kind of like go in, you're like Sarah Milken, and it sort of comes up with all of these images and experiences from all of your past lives are like a cat kind of. You know, I've had like nine lives like, Do you know how many when you go to the Akashic records? Like can you see how many times someone's live?

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No, I don't think that's really pertinent. Because so many and your soul is so ancient, that it's so many timelines, and I see them as timelines of different experiences. You've had a soul. So that number, that's a very human perspective to want to put a number or, you know,

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do you see it in sort of images? Like do you hear voices?

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Sometimes I hear voices, I see images, sometimes it's a deep knowing. It's like, it lives in the realm of your imagination. And so it feels like a memory or a dream like

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deja vu ish. So like, if we go somewhere, we're like, God, this feels familiar. Is that like an intuitive hit like that? Maybe we've been there before. We've met this person before.

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Right. And I think that Deja Vu is like tuning into another timeline that you've already done that and you're crossing different timelines. That makes it Oh,

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I know it just like so esoteric. You're like, I just want to like bite it. I don't I don't get it. 100% Right. So there's all these lessons and gifts that you say that we can get from our past experiences, so if, for example, someone in another life was like, was told, for example, you're not good enough, you'll never amount to anything. Like if they were to go into a session with you, you pull that up for them, what can they do with that information and their free will to sort of change the course of their life right now in this present life.

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I think just having the awareness is very healing and very expanding, because if you don't know where it's come comes from, it's really challenging to heal it if you have no idea where the so I see a lot where people have a really hard time speaking their truth. And it's like, I'll see a rope around the neck or I see that they've been burned at the stake for speaking their truth, or being a healer or being someone in a leadership position. And they've been put to death in the low lifetime. So just helping people be aware of that patterning, it helps change it because, oh, this might not be this lifetime, it might not be this, it's an experience that I hold that pattern. And then we can clear the pattern in their fields or in their records. Sometimes the guides will guide me to clear that pattern in there.

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How do you do that? Like you're actually physically clearing it like through your energy or like you're giving that client the tools? To ask the right question, do you see what I'm saying?

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I do see what you're saying. It's both. It's like diving in there asking the right questions, knowing the why they experienced it in that lifetime, like how did your soul evolve from that experience? And how can you integrate it into this experience right now, and use it as a superpower use it as like, Oh, I'm actually here to speak my truth in this lifetime. Because of that rubber band experience, like you go into the dark, you fly into the light. That contrast leads to expansion. For in the record, sometimes I'll see. And so it's a very imaginative place, I see this pattern in the records of like, say, all the times, you've been persecuted as a soul, or you know, a lot, I've been doing a lot of clearing with women, because we're rising as the Divine Feminine coming into our sovereignty and our power. I see like, all the times as a female energy you've been raped, or you've been bought and sold, or a dowry giving off to an older man and where you didn't have your own, like power and sovereignty, clearing that pattern in their records. And what I do is I call an archangel Michael, and have him help me clear it, then I'll call and Ganesha, which is the Hindu gods that removes obstacles, and have them helped me, basically smooth out the patterning, I'll see it like it's a dark grid pattern and and fill it with golden light and collapse those timelines and release it from their energy field. That's not always it depends on where someone is in their soul evolution, if they'll guide me to do that.

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I see. So it's not like I can do a session with you and ask you that just has to come up naturally.

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Yeah, you can ask and ask your guides, if it's appropriate. Like, is it appropriate for us to clear list if you've done a lot of the healing work around it, but sometimes that pattern is still pertinent for your, your, your path of you learning the lessons? So

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there was a question, I was gonna ask you later, but I feel like it could relate right now. So as a parent of teenagers, you're a parent of teenagers. How old are your kids?

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24 and 27.

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Okay, so they're not, they're a little. Yeah, I'm like, You look so young. It's like, it's like, bizarre but so anyway, like, my kids are 15 and 17. So I guess one of my questions for you in terms of like Akashic records and healing Old Wounds is, how can we use Akashic records? Right now in our today's life, to help better parent link to so we don't bring old shit with us? And is it ever too late,

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never too late, I don't know, like your, your kids from those higher realms, like I see people go through the zone of choice. And they'll be like, you know, your, your son and daughter looks down and they're like, that woman, right, there's gonna give me those exact soul lessons that I need and the gifts that I need. And so they pick you. So knowing that they've actually chosen you to be that vessel of learning and love and understanding. So in that realm, it's like, oh, let's let go of guilt because they did choose that, but how can I be a better parent and the records can actually say, people always ask me all the time. The other day, I had a client and she's like, named all her three kids, how can I be a better mom to each one of them? And we tuned into each son and they gave her information of who they are as a soul and what's going to serve them the best of how she can be a

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parent. You know, your phone is in like your email is gonna blow up after we all have. We all have so many questions about that. So first, let's say for you, for example, like how did you use the account Kaushik records to sort of better parent your children,

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as well. So my kids are vastly different from each other. And so tuning in records of exactly what I just said, how can I serve Elijah better? Like, what does he need from me? Oh, he needs to me to, you know, step out and allow him to really find himself and not interject as much into his field and let and give him the time and the patience that he needs and then invite him in like he's a projector and human designs have needs to be invited. But he also needs that quiet time to understand who he

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is Elijah, no, Jake, my 17 year old. Because that's what I'm living right now. He's like, like, in the morning, he'll go like, it'll be interesting. Because for like, two weeks, he'll be like, super chatty in the morning. And the past two weeks, he hasn't been but there's nothing like major going on. I'm like, Jake, what's going on? He's like, Mom, sometimes in the morning, I just need to like, sit here and not have you asked me 13 things about the day? And I'm like, okay.

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It's hard. It's so hard. And he went through a really hard time in teenage years. And I was like, What do I do? Because he had so much anger in him. And so I asked my guides, what do I do? And they said, see him and his highest light and hold in there. Don't see the distortions don't see that, you know, he's a quote unquote, bad kid, it was just see him in the exalted position, and you use your energy to hold that. And it literally, I just held him and I saw him surrounded with a golden light and held him and like, the divine man that I know he is, his energy shifted, because we're all playing off each other's energy. Yeah. So

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how do you hold that energy? Like, what does that mean?

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So like I said, I used imagination a lot. And so in my meditations, I would just close my eyes and see him successful and see him healed and in peace. And it, it shifted his energy fields. Because of that, the connection that we have, we have such a deep connection. I mean, we've had so many lifetimes together. And I also see, you know, we're all divine mirrors for each other. And so people show up the way that you expect them to, usually. So if you expect him in your own energy field to show up differently, he's gonna feel that and start radiating with that resonance.

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That makes if I want him to talk to me more in the morning, what am I doing?

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Like? Well, I think if you want him to talk more in the morning, you soften your energy field and not try, because what I see is like you try, which makes him close off, more or less. And so you just like, let go and just be like, I'm open. If he wants to talk, I don't want to impede on his free will in that way and respect him. But I'm going to open my energy that I allow him to talk to me if he needs to talk to me, and it feels like he opens up more than more you release.

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Yeah, no, I've tried that for the past two days. I'm like, why are they fucking talking? I sit on the sofa. And I'm like, I don't ask any questions. Is he gonna talk to me? So funny. It's like, it's like such a dance. Whereas like my daughter, she's like, you're chewing really loud. You're breathing really loud. Why is your voice so loud when you talk on the phone? Like she's like way in my business? And he's like, Okay, I need like five minutes away from you things.

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Change, like they've done a dance for ones like that. And then the other.

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I see that all the time. I'm like, this week. He's my favorite child. Last week, she was my favorite child. It just depends on that energy that they're giving off and it's like, hormonal psychotic energy, but I'm hormonal psychotic. Probably too. It's like a menopause perimenopause person, you know, so it's like the perfect shitstorm.

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Now, what's the difference between reading Akashic records and psychic readings? Because I know that's like a question a lot of people have. Yeah,

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so first psychic reading, you know, you're trying not to tell them anything. You're trying to hope that they guess your timeline and guess what's going on your new life. I view the Akashic records as, like an interplay between you and your guides. It's a relationship that you form with your guides. So in the records, you know, your guides want your human perspective, they want to know who this person is to you, how you feel about them, what's going on, and then they can give you that higher dimensional perspective from their viewpoint and see the overall energy of past lives and what's going on from that higher perspective. So the difference I really think it's a more open engaging, it's like having a conversation with your friends, instead of you just saying I have you know, testing them if they're going to guess, right? You know? And I also think, you know, it's very similar in the timeline energy of like, what's going to happen, but your guys aren't really that interested in what's going to happen, because it's more about the energy of how can we create what's gonna happen. And I tend to see the exalted timeline of like, the highest version. But knowing you always have free will, that we talked about, like you can all watch the highest path. I mean, I feel like the highest timeline means when you're in deep alignment with your higher self, and you're you feel good, and things are flowing, and things are open, and you're really moving in a direction that makes you feel expansive, rather than, you know, we've all been on our lower timelines where we're not our best self. And it's hard and, you know, things come in our way. Yeah. And it's just you're not in the vibrational frequency of what could be?

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And how, like, Could you be like, could that change from day to day? Or is it more of just a general feeling like, you can be in flow, but just have a shit day? Like, how's that water

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percent? Yeah, it's the overall frequency that you're emitting. And you can change that to go higher, or lower. But it's not like, oh, shoot, you messed up. You had a bad thought you're in a low timeline. Yeah, the way it works. But

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does anyone ever feel fully satisfied? Like is that the point in life? Or is the point to always feel like we want to be more expand more feel more? Like, what's the purpose? Yeah, I

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think for living on Earth, and being where we are, it is the expansion, it is the seeking impulses, we always want to grow. So consciousness is always expanding. And, and beings, like conscious beings are always reaching towards the light, they're always reaching towards the divine God, the One Infinite Creator, whatever you want to call that source energy, we're always reaching for that. And so we're reaching for the expansion of our soul. So we're always expanding, even when we leave this mortal coil, we're always expanding. And so I do think there's always that impulse to grow and expand and become more and that's what moves life along. Is that that urge to grow, I don't think we get to that space where like, Oh, this is great. So we think you know, all I want is this podcast, and then you get it. And then you want more, right? That's

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sort of like you buy a house. And then you like, want that house so badly. And then you get it and you're like, but I'm not really satisfied.

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Yeah, no, I want something else. Yeah. What are we wanting? Like, I think what we're wanting is that deep peace within us. And that deep self realization of who we are as a soul and being okay with whatever comes at us. And so it's that knowing that you are the divine in motion, and that you are a conscious being, it's like I see it as you are God looking through your eyes playing this divine Lila, which is a cosmic play, but awaking that, you know, your god on God, everything is that consciousness. And so you get in that piece that you trust, everything that comes to you is for you. And that's what we're looking for is that deep connection, and that knowing that we're not separate.

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Um, so why did bad things happen to good people?

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For growth, I think, you know, I, we grow in contrast, like, you know, when everything's just calm and peaceful, there's not a lot of expansion, it's always those moments like my dark night of the soul, or, you know, you being bored as a mom, you know, like staying home. It's that contrast that like, I need more. And so these bad things sometimes happen, for us to learn, evolve, grow. Also, I think, as a soul, before we embark on this third dimensional plane, we want to learn lessons as a soul, like, I want to be I want to learn forgiveness. And so you come down here to learn these things. You have to have someone to forgive. And so these things happen. These like, I do see this like a play, I see it like a movie that we're all playing these roles, and even the bad guys are playing a role for expansion. And for us to learn things and grow and come to that harmonious resonance of who we really are. And understanding that energy

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that makes up Yeah, makes complete sense. My head is spinning. Yes. I'm like, hmm. But then if if kids pick the parent, their parents, why would a kid pick up set of parents that? I don't know we're having drug issues or living in poverty, like how do you explain that?

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Well, so maybe as a soul, you really wanted to learn your own strength. And so you pick a very contrasting childhood in order to, like come into your own, like, you know, you hear of those kids that grew up in the projects or something and then they read Have this fire to make music or they have fought this fire to write a book and they they use their experience for that teaching or for that expansion of coming into, like, I think a lot of us are here for learning our own divine sovereignty and being our own person regardless of what happens. And, you know, finding forgiveness or stopping the bloodline, like I also do a lot of bloodline killing where, you know, when you look and you're like, I want that I'm going to incarnate into this family that does a lot of drugs, and then you see the bloodline has addiction enter energy in that entire bloodline. And so you come into this energy. And not only is it embedded in your DNA, or your soul, you know, your, your cells, you experience the distortion. So you're in the room with addiction, and so it's in your field, and in your body, you grow up and you heal that this, you know, Gabor Ma Tei has this thing, like, it's not the addiction, what's the trauma behind the addiction, so there's a trauma in that family. So when you heal your inner trauma, of experiencing that, and then you don't become an addict, you actually heal the bloodline. And so the buck stops with you. And that's one way we're healing the planet is by doing our own inner work by experiencing, you know, the family with addiction, and then you heal it, you don't become it, and then your kids don't experience that same distortion. And so that whole blood line gets lighter and lighter, and doesn't have that same imprint.

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So for example, like with you were talking about at the beginning about the molestation piece in your younger years, like, is that something that you kind of have gone in and worked on so that you're not bringing that down to your children?

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Correct? Correct. And then I'm hyper aware of it. And I, you know, I was very, hyper aware of not giving my kids to babysitters, or, you know, not allowing parties in my house, or random men or anything like that. I'm very protective of my kids, because it wasn't anyone in my family, it was, you know, there were parties going on when it was right. And so I was just very aware of keeping my kids safe, and doing my inner healing work. So I don't have that distortion in me. And coming. I think that led me to being who I am like a consciousness teacher, and the healer. Because of that, that happened. So now I help like, hundreds of girls with that same template, I can recognize it immediately. Like, they get on my table or sit across from me. And I see this pocket above their left hip, and I'm like, Oh, I know exactly. What happens to some people not know. Yes. And I have brought that up to somebody before a couple people and like, you have this energy, and they're like, I don't remember anything. And then they start working with it. And they're like, Oh, my God that I do. Remember that happened. But I had shut it off. Because I didn't remember until I was 29. And they Oh, wow. Yeah, I had no, I had Inklings because of my behavior, or just things that I was doing. At but then at 29 was going through my dark night, and going through my divorce. We were fighting one night, and I was in the bathroom, and crying and all sudden this download of what had happened to me just like, wow, everything made sense of what I had done previously, and I'm like, Oh, my God, that happens. And then I got crazy. Yeah, so a lot of people don't remember, but I can always see it, and then I can help them. You know, I don't put anything in people's head. I'm very careful of not putting an idea in somebody's head. Right? It is, but just like, I feel an energy. You know, what could that maybe it's another lifetime. Maybe it's this lifetime, and we dive into that

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if you had one piece of advice for women in midlife, as it relates to inner healing or Akashic records, or any of your gifts, like what would they be?

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I think love yourself more love every inch of your skin. Literally your cells are listening to you in every moment. So your cells are magnetic. They're made of iron. Everything you say to your body, your body's listening. So more love, like, take your oil in the morning or when you're showering and be like I love you. I love you squeeze your arm, squeeze your legs, squeeze your face and just constantly tell yourself like I love you and honor yourself as that divine being as the goddess incarnate, the High Priestess coming into her own and that your cells will listen to your body will start responding to that love and what you're saying to your body. And I think that's the greatest key of more, more, more love, always.

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Now tell us about Your Divine alchemy program.

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So divine alchemy Academy is a portal of healing and learning and so I offer different classes based on what I feel the collective needs. Right now we're in this harmonic universe which we learn about the loved one we learn about the Akashic records we learn about different chakras of balancing our chakras and our energy bodies and coming into alignment with your soul song, your sacred sound, that unique frequency that you it's really great, the, the groups of people that expand and come in are just the most beautiful, heart centered beings like anyone that's new that comes in is like, everyone in here is just so heart centered and kind and beautiful and supportive. And that's I think, the best thing, but we finished into my masculine class that the beginning of summer, which is amazing about balancing our divine masculine inside and, and also inspiring the masculine in our realm to wake up and to see themselves for who they are. I've done a goddess class, where we learn on the Goddess and the journey that the goddess takes to go into the underworld to come into her own Higher Self. Our next class after this is manifestation magic quantum leap into a parallel reality. So where we're really tuning into who we are and coming into that quantum space of jumping a timeline to an even higher version of ourselves,

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so listeners can find you like they can do classes, they could do one on one session. Where can they find

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you? So on Instagram, I'm Kimber Tiernan. And on my website is divine alchemy academy.co and

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spell Kimber Tiernan

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Yeah, K I N B E R, T, i e, r n a n. Okay. And I have a bunch of meditations on YouTube as well. Wow. Divine alchemy Academy. So

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are there any breathing meditations because I might have been to that

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breathing and there's inner child work. There's goddess work on there.

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Become a goddess in my next life. I love that. Hey, peeps, it's me again, I listened to this episode with Kimber Tiernan. So I could summarize the golden nuggets for you to have actionable items to start using today. I know that when I listen to a long episode from a podcast, I'm like, oh my god, I love that. But then I can't even fucking remember the specifics. This is why I come back and do a golden nugget summary. In this episode, we sit down with Kimber and talk all the whoo that's going on to help you understand your soul better. We're talking Akashic records, listening to your soul healing and so much more. And just a reminder, this is just part one of my talk with Kimber and part two next week. Kimber gives me a live reading for me and my spirit guides in my Akashic records. So stay tuned for that golden nugget number one Deja Vu and you ever get that feeling in the moment that you've already done that thing or seen that person before? Yep, that's deja vu. Kimber says that Deja Vu is an intuitive hit, and believes that's us tuning into another timeline that we've already maybe done before. So what does that mean for us by crossing these different timelines, that's our bodies and souls telling us to learn the lessons or experiences we might be encountering in that specific moment. Golden Nugget number two healing sessions, you've got to go do a healing session. As Kimber puts it, it's just having an awareness of what's gone on in your life, that it can be very healing and expanding. The thing with the sessions is that everything has to come naturally. You can ask your own personal spirit guides what's appropriate for specific decision, but sometimes a pattern is still pertinent for your path, and can take some time so you can learn an important message golden nugget, number three Akashic records and parenting. Kimber says that it's never too late to use your Akashic records when parenting, you have to remember that your kids souls chose you as their parent to learn and love and understand from tuning into Akashic records for each kid will help you discover what their soul is looking for, for which you can provide to them through your parenting techniques. Golden Nugget number four, the difference between Akashic records and psychic readings. I know a lot of you will be asking what's the difference between Akashic readings and psychic readings? Trust me I was there to Kimber explains that in a psychic reading, you're not trying to tell the person anything specifically, meaning that you're trying to get them to guess their own timeline, and what's going on in their own lives. Akashic readings on the other hand, is the relationship between you and your own personal spirit guides. Your guides want to know your human perspective. So they can give you the higher dimensional perspective to see what happened in your previous lives and create a path based on your energies. Golden Nugget number five divine in motion. Ever wonder what we're truly wanting, we might get that thing we thought we so desperately needed, but when we do, we don't actually feel satiated by it. That's normal. Ember says that what we truly want is that deep peace within us, and the deep self realization that we're going to be okay. Kimber wants you to see yourself as God looking through your eyes playing the cosmic play, and to remember that everything happens for a reason. Every single thing you experienced is a learning opportunity. The gold is dripping off these nuggets, grab it, use it, there are three things you can do. First, subscribe to this podcast. Second, share it with some friends who might like midlife shed. And third, write an apple review and send me a screenshot and of course, follow my instagram at the flexible neurotic and talk soon.